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Italians are probably the easiest cultural group
to purchase any gift for, just think food. If you are not familiar
with Italian culture you may find yourself at a loss for ideas.
Do not worry however, because once you understand some common
aspects about Italian culture, you will soon find yourself wishing
everyone on your Christmas list was Italian.
Italian Culture
What comes to your mind when you hear the word “Italian”?
Perhaps an image of a large family sitting around a dining room
table with loads of pasta in pasta bowls? Or maybe you instantly
see images of mobster legends such as Al Capone and his boys eating
in a dark restaurant. Alternatively, you might think of the beautiful
rolling hills of Tuscany, the shorelines of Naples and Sicily,
or maybe the massive Coliseum nestled in the heart of Rome. There
is no one right impression, because there are multiple impressions
which are all correct.
Italian culture can be summed up into 3 main categories:
food, passion and family. Each of these is no more or no less
important than another, and in no way is Italian culture limited
to these 3 groups. Certainly there are more, however based on
my own experiences within my own family and my travels, I can
confidently narrow them down to these three which I will elaborate
on in more detail.
Italian Food
If there is one Italian word most everyone in today’s society
understands it is “Mangia!”. Mangia is the Italian
word for “Eat”. Italian food runs deep within the
veins of Italian culture. Any traveler to Italy who experiences
the taste of truly authentic Italian food knows they have discovered
pure heaven. Italians love to spend time in the kitchen eating
and talking with friends and family. It is customary when visiting
an Italian, that they will offer you some fresh espresso. They
will not run down to a local coffee shop, because most Italian
homes make their own espresso by using a simple stovetop
espresso maker right in their own kitchen.
Most Italian
recipes use simple ingredients and are not difficult to prepare.
The reality is, when you use quality ingredients such as good
olive oils, fresh herbs and cheeses you do not need much more.
Take for example, a basic Italian marinara
sauce. This does not need oregano, thyme, basil or anything
else, because a simple marinara sauce uses tomatoes, olive oil,
water, garlic and tomato paste (and even that is optional). Italians
understand mixing too many flavors can utterly destroy an Italian
recipe. Simple Italian
recipes are just that… simple ingredients offering amazing
flavors and aromas.
Italians take pride in their food. From the fresh
fish caught off the shores of Naples to the fresh cheeses made
in Tuscany, and don’t forget the Sicilian’s contribution
of the now world famous cannoli. Give an Italian man a good Italian
meal and you will have won his heart. Feed your kids and their
friends the best Italian lasagna, and moms in the neighborhood
will start asking for your recipe. Italian food makes people happy.
The Passionate Italian
Within every true blooded Italian, there is a voice… a very
strong voice. It does not matter if it makes itself known once
a year or every hour, it is there. Do not dismiss the stereotypes
either, such as the Italian couple arguing loudly, flinging hands
up in the air, staring each other down and then finding comfort
in each others passionate love making embrace …it happens.
You can observe this passion in everything they
do, from kissing their spouse in the morning to eating their linguini
at night. When they say their food is beautiful, they say it with
emotion! When they are upset, everyone will know about it. If
they are pleased with something, everyone will hear about it.
Italians know how to command a presence when they walk into a
room. They know how to pick a person apart with a single “look”,
and they certainly know how to say what they mean and mean what
they say. From the little old grandmother peeling potatoes to
the Italian baker, you are guaranteed to find it in one form or
another. Yet, at the same time, Italians are some of the most
sensitive and caring people you could ever find. Give Mr. Bigshot
in the room a little baby infant to hold, and watch Mr. Bigshot
transforms into Mr. Softy before your very own eyes. Whatever
passion they have, albeit boisterous or internally, the Italian
experiences them all with great zeal and tremendous respect.
The Italian Family
Like many cultures, Italians value family. The blood which is
shared between family members is a bond that nearly nothing can
break. This does not mean there is never any strife, fights, or
other problems among loved one, but when it comes down to it,
families will pull together when they need to. The Italian family
is generous and hospitable, offering a chair and food to every
guest who enters the house. They can sit around the kitchen table
for hours just talking, eating and enjoying the time together…
as family.
The Gift of Food
Perhaps now you can see the importance of food in Italian culture.
Not only is it a part of their culture in and of itself, but can
be found in every facet of Italian life. It is no surprise to
know that Italians often give food as gifts. Italian
themed gift baskets were the norm far before they became commercialized.
Offering a basket of fruit was common back in the day between
friends and family. Family and friends would often give gifts
that helped the other person out with the necessities of life.
This was especially common during times are recession and war.
Today food still plays a vital role in Italian culture. It only
makes sense to give gifts which are related to food.
We must not forget Italians are not the only ones
who appreciate Italian gift baskets. In fact, anyone who respects
Italian food and Italian culture would be impressed with such
a gift. When choosing a gift basket, look for items suitable for
the person you are buying the gift for. For example, if the person
is allergic to milk, you may want to stay away from cheese gift
baskets and opt for a pasta gift basket instead.
Choosing a
gift for an Italian is not hard once you understand some of their
cultural background. For some people the perfect gift may be a
homemade dish of pasta, or Italian Christmas cookies. If you are
not keen on the idea of making a meal from scratch as a gift,
(not many people are these days), then a gift basket may just
fit the bill. There are a large number of varieties of Italian
gift baskets available and you can choose the right size and
style for the occasion. For example if it is for Valentines Day,
choose one filled with chocolate, if it is during the holidays,
then choose an Italian
Christmas
gift basket.
Either way, gift baskets are always an impressive choice for any
occasion all year round.
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